How can i make him interested?


How can i make him interested?

How can i make him interested?

Have you found a man whose attention you want to get? The best way you can attract the attention this guy is getting his eyes to look your way – first. How do you attract the attention of  the man you want? Read the following tips on “how can i make him interested” to find out:

Show your true self.

The best way you could attract the attention of any guy is to be yourself. It would also be better if he knows your true personality from the beginning. In addition, it will be difficult to fix things if the man discovers that you lied to him and pretended to be someone else.

Be your best self.

If you stay a wallflower, nobody will ever be able to notice. Try to look your best and when you feel that you are beautiful, your confidence level will certainly be stimulated. By then, the man you are eying, or any man for that matter, will surely take note.

Dress in the sexiest way.

It is in the nature of a man to want to see a sexy woman. This does not always mean skimpy dresses and skirts or showing of cleavage. A woman who knows how to dress attractively will  surely ooze with confidence and attract the attention of men without any effort.

Make eye contact and smile at him.

To make sure that you have really caught the attention of your target, make eye contact with him. Keep this look for a few seconds, then smile at him shyly. This movement has proved so effective and has began millions of relationships. If he smiles back, your move was a great success – and you’re another number on the list!

What is body language because if you do not use?

The use of body language is another way you could convey your intentions to any man. Indeed if you have been asking yourself “how can i make him interested“, then body language is all you need to get him to notice you. Move your body to the side or you can point one of your feet to him. This will allow you to observe, but in a less confrontational manner. Do all this and see how he reads it!

Are you an expert in flirting?

If you have not been able to get his attention in the most subtle way, flirt with him instead. However, do not be too direct in your intentions, because it could just turn the man off. Be stylish with your movements and he will not even know that you are already pouncing on him!

Open your mouth and let good things come out of it.
Speak as an expert, but not as a braggart. Do not be a know-it-all. Instead, allow your conversations to flow as a woman who can talk about anything under the sun, who is well read. And let no man hear you cuss – it is conduct unbecoming of a lady!

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How to open your heart to love

How to open your heart to love

Dear beautiful readers

What is life? Why are we here ? For me, what I have experienced is that I’m here to learn how to give and receive love. I am here to serve others.We are here to give and receive love, this is the point of having a relationship with someone, of fall in loving, of experiencing heartbreaks, of facing challenges, problems, obstacles, pain, grief, sorrow, regret etc. Life teaches us how to find love in ourselves by keeping our hearts open, knowing that the best is yet to come. When the expected situation in life does not come your way, if you can just put it in perspective and see the bigger picture, you’ll realize there’s a reason behind everything. There is a specific lesson you’re supposed to learn from every experience in life. All experiences in life teach you how to find your true self. All experiences in life teach you to love, accept, trust, and forgive yourself. All experiences in life teach you to open your heart to love.

What do you do when you encounter heart brakes, injury, or face disappointments? Some of us close ourselves up because we are afraid of being hurt again. Some of us can move on easily. Here are at least ten ways that can help you open your heart again.


1 . Do what you love and love what you do

What makes you heart sing?

Find the time to do something you love. Create that special moment when you and connect with your faith, that inner true self that has the ability to give love, and receive love. For example, reading, writing, cooking, talking with friends, walking in the woods, working in your garden, going to the beach, etc. When you do something you love, your heart opens up for more love and you also have more love to give.

2 . Do something for someone without any expectation

What would be a good action, thought, word that you can give to someone without expectations?
How would it make the other person feel when he / she receives an act of kindness from you?
How do you feel when you do something nice for others?

For me, it should not be a big, grandiose work, but small things with great love. For example, I walk my dog regularly because I love it. I just do it for her because I know she likes to go out and it’s good for her. When she is happy, it makes me happy. To please anyone keeps my heart glowing, dancing, and expanding to more love. My other favorite things to do is to open doors for someone everywhere I go, smile at people who walk by, wave to neighbors, say ” hello ” to people passing by while I walk my dog, etc. You will feel the love in your heart that you give, because what goes around comes around.

3 . Think happy thoughts

What makes you smile when you think about it?

Have you ever heard of the ” Law of Attraction ” ? Birds of a feather flock together. Love attracts love. Hate attracts hatred.

When you think happy thoughts, some happy things begin to manifest in your life.
When you think sad thoughts, sad incidents begin to manifest in your life. When you think of someone or your old friend, they call you or email you, etc. Thoughts are energy and so are you. Be aware of what you think, because you will receive everything you think. If you want happiness, then, think of happiness. If you want to have love in your heart, then think about love. If you want peace, then, think peace, etc. When you think happy thoughts, your heart will be filled with love and happiness. Your heart will smile and be ready to open again.

4 . Embrace life and say “yes” to the

What happens when you embrace life ?
What happens when you do not have ?

When the opportunity presents itself to you , what would you do with it ? When a new friend, a relationship or job appears in your life, how do you approach this? Do you agree with the grace or the escape?

If you say “no” to life, think about how many opportunities and life lessons you will miss. Think about what you might be missing that you can learn from, grow and become stronger. Life is growth. As long as you live, you will continue to grow.

Take risks, step out of your comfort zone, stretch your muscles, and say “yes” to life. I would also advise you to see the movie “Yes Man” with Jim Carrey. It is a great movie for all of us to learn to listen to our hearts and say “Yes” to life.

If you say “yes” to life, you learn to find your true self which is unlimited, incredible and bold. You will learn that you can indeed do what you want to do and be what you want to be. You have the power within you . It is a matter of taking action and accepting all the opportunities that present themselves. The major key is to always listen to your heart or your inner voice, because he always tells the truth. Say ” yes” to what you want and say “no” to what you do not want.

What keeps you from being open to embracing life ?

A typical response would be “I ‘m afraid …. ” Yes , it is good to recognize fear. It is indeed good for you. It is healthy. It can help you build confidence as you move past your fear to the other side. you will be proud of the fact that you actually have overcome. the key is to fill your heart with love. with love you can do anything!

Although things may seem difficult at the moment, so you can be who you really are and tap into the power within. Go beyond the limitation. Come feel the unlimited in you. You will be surprised by yourself in all the truth when you can afford to be who you really are – unlimited !

You are unlimited. Why limit yourself ? Be open, say “yes” to life and see what life could bring for you.

5. See the best of every person, every situation, every opportunity and every moment

What do you see in your life right now that is a great opportunity for you to develop ?
When you put things in perspective, it helps you expand your perception. You see things in a bigger picture. Instead of beating yourself, blaming yourself or others for your past mistakes, practice seeing the lesson behind your experience. What did life teach you? When you see the best in everything and everyone, you ‘re more likely to see the best of yourself. When you see things in a bigger picture, your heart is more inclined to accept what life can bring and be more open to love.

6 . Practice controlling your breathing, meditation , contemplation or Whatever helps you be at peace.

Controlling your breathing, meditation or contemplation all help you connect to your true self. As many of you may have heard, we are spiritual beings in human bodies. Each of us has an inner voice that always tells the truth. Practice controlling your breathing, meditation or contemplation. This will help you still your mind and be in touch with who you really are. It will bring love, peace, and even heal your broken heart. When you listen to the mind instead of your own heart, you simply stop makng progress. It prevents you from seeing the truth. It prevents you from being your authentic, true self . It prevents you from experiencing love. It prevents you from opening your heart. Your true nature is love. Love is what you are.

Close your eyes , your mind and even practice your breathing. Take deep breaths , hold, and let go slowly. Let go of all your hurts , worries, doubts and fears. Be in the moment of your breathing. You breathe love in and let love out. You are aware of your condition at the moment. It is a state of being in love. Keep practicing this for about 15-20 minutes a day and you will see the results. You will feel at peace and find love there.

7 . Be grateful for everything

What are you thankful for today?
What blessings have you received from your birth until now?
What are the blessings that make you feel loved, accepted and special?

Start counting your blessings today. You will be amazed that you are very lucky indeed.
Are you still breathing ? You are alive! You have eyes to see, ears to hear, mouth to eat, nose to smell beautiful roses , hands for touching things and your heart is still beating ! You may not be like your neighbors with, children, dream job, dream car, money, etc., but you are yourself, the wonderful, incredible, you !

What are you thankful for? Do you have your diary that you can write your list? When you write things down, it helps you see things clearly. At present, you may not feel grateful. If you grab a pen and start doodling, passing through all the wonderful things you are grateful for in your life, you will be surprised. Think of a person in the past who came into your life and you learned something – if it was your parents, siblings , spouse, children, teachers, friends, colleagues, bosses, neighbors, or even strangers your ex , etc. . What have you learned from them? What specific lesson it was that each of these people has taught you and brought you to be the person you are today?

I count my blessings every day before going to bed and when I wake up every morning. I thank my Higher Power for the gift of life. I thank my husband and my children for being in my life. I thank all my friends and everyone who is in my life. I thank my dog who has taught me to love unconditionally. I thank every situation, every experience , and every challenge that has helped me grow. I thank the sun that shines on me. I thank the beautiful green trees for their beauty. I thank the rain for pouring on all the trees. I can go on and on with my long list. The more I count my blessings, more love is in my heart .

Sometimes when life does come our way , we get frustrated , disappointed , and close our hearts. If you start to look at life in perspective, you will see that life is indeed to teach you to learn to love yourself . Life teaches you how to find and find the love in you. When you are grateful for life and all, your heart will start opening. This is the secret . Count your blessings today and feel your heart expand !
Life is a precious gift . Do not take for granted.

8. Be in the present moment

Where are your thoughts right now?

If you are reading this article, you are here and now. If your eyes are looking at this article, but your mind is elsewhere , you are not present.

Some of us or most of us spend too much time dwelling on thoughts of how the happy past was, when you were in your past relationship, it was so sad to part, how our bodies use to look like when we were young, how you enjoyed your time with someone, but now everything is gone, how much you regret , and so on… when your thoughts dwell on the past, you live in the past. You are not here. You can not move forward when you live in the past. Let go of your past. Let it go. There is more . Do not worry about the future either. There is no past, no future, but the present. Every moment of your life is in the present.

9 . be love

How can you attract love, if you do not love?

Fill your heart with love by thinking happy thoughts, let go of your old wounds, limiting negative beliefs and see who you are right now. When you love, you will get into love. When you feel love, you tend to be more open to possibilities. You are more willing to give. And when you give, what you give comes back to you .

Practice being loving you by looking in the mirror and saying ” I love you. You are incredible. You are a happy being. You are loving and kind. “When you love, trust, accept and forgive yourself, you will become more affectionate.

10 . Be yourself

Who are you really?

Spend time to discover the real you. You are the creator of your own world. You can do or be what you want to do and be . The key is to tap into this power and begin to act now. Discover the real, authentic you. Discover the loving you, who has a beautiful heart that is filled with so much love, joy and peace. You inspire others. You are beautiful. You are love. Be yourself and love. Then you will attract love into your life. You become a magnet for love.

Open your heart again. Let love come in. Fill your heart with it and give it to those who need it. You are incredible! The world does not need your pain, but your love. You are love.

With love and gratitude,

15 signs that he is ready to propose

What do men look for in a potential wife?

What do men look for in a potential wife?

There are still things that you can  do that will get him to propose. But perhaps , before you delve deeper into this , you may want to look at the signs that he is ready to make the big proposal. If you recognize these signs then you will not need to make him propose.

Also see: how to make him propose

1 – He is willing to share and talk with you about his future arrangements. He is not afraid to talk about marriage, starting a family and having children.

2 – He admires married couples and hopes he will one day be like them. He believes that marrying a person is the best thing that will ever happen in the life of a person and does not see it as a burden.

3 – He is like a magnet for children. He is very enthusiastic about having children and he becomes attached to newborns.

4 – He shows by his actions that a career is a second priority because you already hold first place. This is the major sign that he is ready to settle down with you.

5 -  He accepts and even expects to accompany you to events such as weddings and family outings.In fact, he could even fantasize that the both of you you were getting married. He wants to share this moment with you.

6 – He brings you back home to his mom. Men are usually wary of the woman they take home to meet with their mothers and the rest of the family. He knows that this is a sure sign to everyone that this is the woman he wants to marry and settle down with. If your man insists on you seeing  his family, you can be sure that he is serious and ready for commitment.

7 – He is not afraid of commitment. In reality, he is very eager to take on anything as long as you are there with him.

8 – He is responsible for his financial situation, because he knows that one day his family will rely on him for support.

9 – His life does not just revolve around bars. He always finds time to spend with you and does not mind spending it at home with you.

10 – He becomes more protection and possessive. A good sign is that   he will become more protective and possessive. He takes the role of “defender” and “protector” and will try to prove that you belong to him. It is a natural instinct that will surface in most men when they want to settle down and marry.

11 – He begins to open up to you more. A man takes time to open up to a woman. If he is not serious about you, nothing will make him open up and let you know his feelings and emotions. On the other hand, if he is serious about committing to you, he will think nothing of sharing his deepest feelings, fears and desires with you.

12 – Notice how he talks about the future. You can notice it in how he describes his plans in plural terms, using words such as “we” and “us.” This means that it is already considering you as someone with whom he is expecting to share the future with.

13 – Another way to know a man who wants to commit is when he does things for you that you normally should. Changing a light bulb, taking out your trash , taking your car to the workshop. When a man loves a woman, he wants to help.

14 – If the subject of marriage comes when you are with others and he avoids it like the plague and can’t even make positive comments about it , it is a sure sign of a man who wants to be engaged soon.

15 – He is good to your friends. If he cares what your friends think and does things to help without asking, it’s a sure sign that he is ready to settle down .

If he is ready for marriage, you just have to wait  and he will propose. There will be no need to learn how to get him to propose first.

20 signs that it is time to breakup

Has your relationship run its course ? Here are twenty signs that are unmistakable .

Relationships, like the scorching summer days are often more beautiful in our memories. Just as we forget how summer days are exhausting and stuffy, we forget how much we may feel alone and stupid when our relationship is in trouble.

“It is time to end ” , right? It’s never that simple. We found that almost everybody one day faces this dilemma : should we breakup, yes or no? It seems to be too difficult, we doubt the love is still there, yet we do not want to hurt the one who is dear to us, we ‘re afraid we will be making a mistake that we will be unable to recover from. All these reasons culminate in forcing us to stay in the relationship.

However, these excuses are not enough to stay with your partner when your relationship is at a standstill. A breakup may still make you unhappy, even if you were dying to get away. You may find yourself thinking about the idyllic future of your dreams the first few days. One thing is sure though, if you are unhappy, this idyllic future was not about to occur.

See signs he is romantically interested in you
If you are regularly faced with one of these twenty cases, it may be time to turn the page. It will not be easy, but ultimately it is the right thing to do. Life is too short ( and your partner too) to waste your precious years in a relationship that is going nowhere.

1 . You feel a craving to be alone by yourself

Wanting to spend every second together with your partner would be weird and would mean that you are in need of affection. It is normal to want to be alone. But if at any time you are together, you are wishing he or she is not around, it is clear that your relationship frustrates you more than it makes you happy.

2 . You do not go out

Even if you live together, never neglect the outings you share with each other. Having sex or watching TV in silence is not enough to support a harmonious relationship.

3 . You prefer to see your friends than your partner

A healthy relationship consists of relating with people alone or with your other half. Not wanting to live again with your roommates and not your lover.

4 . You are no longer in love

Your libido can be zero for several reasons, especially due to stress or a medical condition. However, if your partner becomes uninterested, and sex becomes a chore, or ceases to exist, you may be listening to the alarm bells.

5. You do not touch each other anymore

Physical contact is not limited to gender, it is affection and intimacy. Touching, caressing, holding hands are all signs of a healthy relationship between two people who still enjoy each others company. If you jump when he or she touches you, it’s time to decamp.

6 . You will kiss you more

The fiery kisses are the most intimate and are as emotional as sex, so it’s often the first thing that disappears when a couple begin to grow apart. If you can’t remember the last time you had a fiery passionate kiss, you may want check if your relationship has stuttered.

7 . He doesn’t make you laugh anymore

You used to laugh, just listening to his witty replies. Lately, you just want him to shut up. Why are you still with him, tell me ?

8 . You do not chat

Talk – about everything and anything, the news, the day’s work – is the foundation of a good relationship. If you stop discussing mundane things, is it that the time when you saw yourself as good friends are gone?

9 . You constantly  nitpick

If it’s not the sucking noises at breakfast, it’s his clothing tastes and every move he makes invariably makes you sigh.It is not insignificant: this kind of everyday stress can affect your health.

10 . He constantly nitpick

If you feel your partner gets irritated by you all the time, it may be that he is unhappy or uncomfortable in your company. Maybe he wants to leave you, but does not have the courage to broach the subject . If he or she gives you this kind of impression, do you really want to stay with him ?

11 . You do all the household chores

Couples can have longstanding disagreements about household and other chores , but the spats usually end on a vague equality or compromise. But if your partner treats you like a doormat, put him out of the door.

12 . Your appearance is more important

Love does not mean you should let go. If you do not care to please him anymore , it’s a blow to your sex life – and your relationship.

13. Day to mark a milestone through the cracks

Birthdays, Valentine’s Day and other major holidays may seem futile , but a loving couple will consider one way or another, even if it is only a piece of paper with the following scribbled on it ” The Saint Valentine is zero, spend the day in bed. ” When you forget your respective birthdays, your relationship is so outdated that even a dog would not want points.

14. You are the one to always give ( or receive )

Most romantic relationships go through several stages, one partner may be more generous on the sexual and emotional than the other, but the imbalance can not last. Parasites do not make good partners.

15 . You do not love you more

You’re not supposed to feel neglected, unattractive or unable to be yourself. If your lover has this effect on you, escape and do not let him undermine your self esteem.

16. Your friends think he is not good for you

Your friends are the ones who know you best, and they will say what they think if it’s for your good. If they believe that your partner is not right for you, listen. They will be there for you when your new pet will no longer be.

17. You compare your partner to other women or men

It is normal to find other people attractive, but not negatively comparing your lover with anyone who catches your eye.

18 . You try to find your ex

OK, you can be friends with his ex, it shows a certain measure of maturity. But if you try to find an ex and flirt with him, and then arrange to meet and get to ask “What if … ? ” Your current relationship is doomed to failure.

19. You hope they will change

When the first blissful months have passed, the conflict between your personalities becomes increasingly obvious. You may be able to turn your partner into someone who suits you best. Instead, try finding one that suits you perfectly.

20 . You say ” I love you ” but do not think

The nagging guilt you when you say this, as if you were lying? You say it only to silence and make him leave? So stop and spend more time with someone you really love, starting with yourself.

5 Easy steps to get your man to commit

You have the perfect boyfriend, a great relationship, you’ve both confessed to each other about how you feel , but you’re still waiting to go to the next level of the relationship. Why? Is it because your man is not ready for commitment? He has not asked you to be with him for good? Maybe he has a commitment phobia. Maybe something about his past is not letting him commit to you or maybe it was because of his insecurities. Whatever the reason, it is not very difficult to make your man commit to you with a bit of patience, understanding and lots of love . Here are 5 easy to follow steps to get your man to realize that you are the one and commit without any pressure or fear.

Let him know that you have a life

If you are there for him at all times, if you are ready to serve or take care of him at every opportunity and are ready to be at his beck and call, then do not be surprised that he has not popped the magic question. Have a life of your own, hang out with your friends and learn to say no to him at times. This will only make him realize that maybe you can just go on without him and he will come to see just how much he will miss you, if he does not commit to you now.

 Make him say he loves you

If he has not said those 3 words, then drop subtle hints and push a little. Do not pressurize him or anything, but a nice picturesque reminder will work. He does not have to say it a dozen times a day to show his feelings, but the more he says it on his own, the more he will realize what it means. When this realization comes,  then he will be ready to pop the question and commit to you.

Do not let him do everything

Men like to take care of everything about the woman they are in love with, especially when they have the means. But do not let him do everything for you. Offer to do some things for yourself and even for him. You could offer to pay for a meal from time to time or you can pick up groceries for the home by yourself or you could get something fixed in the house without his help. If you rely on him for everything he could think that you are taking undue advantage of him.

Do not  takeaway his freedom

One main mental obstacle preventing most men from making long-term commitment or marriage is the idea that they will lose their freedom. They evoke thoughts about how they have to spend every moment of their life with you and his other friends, hobbies or activities will take a back seat. Give him the assurance that with you, he is not going  to be deprived of his precious freedom. Let him off on his own, to be with friends and engage in leisure, while he is with you so he becomes convinced that his freedom will not go with committing to you

Support him when he confides in you

Men confide their deepest, darkest secrets to a woman when they are dead serious about her. Listen to him patiently, do not give your biased opinion and refrain from commenting. Be positive when  he requires you to offer advice and when he asks you. Be there for him in times of need,  don’t act as if you are not interested in sharing the burden or pain he is going through. Being there for him in his time of need will only make him realize what an asset you are to him, and this will only hasten his commitment to you.

If you follow the above steps and carefully move your man away from his commitment phobia, then he could just pop the question to you very soon.

5 signs that he wants to marry you: Find-out whether your man is really serious about you!

Tantalizing signs that he wants to marry you! find out whether your man is really serious about you!

How to get a guy to propose

How to get a guy to propose

Do you think your man is truly committed to you? Do you feel that he wants to propose? Do you want to get him to marry you?
If so, read this page immediately. It is important that you understand the signs if you want to get him to propose faster.
Men tend to feel nervous when they propose. These uncomfortable feelings can cause a lot of trouble in your relationship. It
is therefore very important that you are able to recognize and understand these signs that shows he is getting ready for commitment , and this will make you know if your man is interested in getting married or not.

Here are a few signs that show he is interested in walking you down the isle.

  1. He emphasizes the relationship – When your man makes your relationship a priority above all other issues, then there is a very good chance he is in love and wants to get engaged. Does he spend time with you or mostly prefers hanging out with his friends? If his friends call him for a night out while you are together, will he go with them or does he prefer to stay with you? If he was made one of the following things, it clearly says that he is really in love with you.
  2. Became more responsible – If your man acted more responsible and frugal on spending, it is a sign that he is saving for something big. If he puts in more hours at work and tries his best to save as much money as he can, then it’s probably because he wants to settle down. Observe his expenses. He could be saving money for that exclusive diamond ring.
  3. Is he ready to meet your family – If your man has started to look to meet your family and friends, he is making it clear that he intends to move the relationship to another level of commitment. If he asks you to meet his family, it is a sure sign that your man is  ready for marriage. By indicating an interest in meeting your family, he is exhibiting one of the signs that he wants to commit to you and is getting ready for the big day.
  4. Ready to go to places of commitments – If your man has suddenly become interested in attending the weddings of friends or cousin or an invitation to the wedding of his friends, he is inadvertently showing that marriage is on his mind and that he wants to make your relationship more permanent.
  5. Discussions about children – When you and your man have discussions bordering on children, observe his reaction. Observe how emotional he becomes when he speaks about kids and how many of them he wants. If he talks about kid’s names and sex of kids with you, he is clearly stating that he expects to spend the rest of his life with you….

6 signs a shy guy likes you

6 signs that a shy guy likes you

 signs that a shy guy likes you

signs that a shy guy likes you

I had the wonderful experience of trying to figure out once. In fact, I ended up getting married to my shy guy, but at first i was completely lost as to whether he liked me or was just trying to avoid me. This made me think he hated me and we ended up not talking for years because of it. But once I came to see the real reasons for his actions, I realized that this guy was crazy for me.

Here we provide a few signs that a shy guy likes you, that will take the guessing game out of the whole equation.

1.He looks down, sideways, and anywhere but directly into your eyes for more than a second .

It does not matter how shy he is, you look into your eyes if he has no interest in you. Watch these guys with their friends
and you will see that making eye contact is not impossible for them. But when it comes to women they like, making steady eye
contact can be a challenge they can not seem to overcome.

2.It is easily embarrassed around you.

He looks down and away from you and his cheeks may turn reddish when you are close to him. Even when someone mentions your
name, he became embarrassed. This embarrassment is normally thrown in there smile. Sweating is another sign of nervousness
and if it can not be attractive, you know he is very nervous around you for a reason.

3.He fumbles his words and says stupid things.

This is huge! The words come out backwards and intended compliments come out as extremely harsh statements. The things he
does not mean to say get out of his mouth and he does not know how to correct it so that it does not even try. In fact, my
husband said, some of the dumbest things ever coming out as insults, but are designed as something nice and comforting.

4.He will know about you and what you want without having to talk to you.

If you’ve noticed that he is checking you out, while you were’nt looking, or that he is being attentive to your needs without
having to show you, then you know he care’s for you, but is afraid to show you.

For example, we were camping and I mentioned that I needed another pillow to sleep with a girl I was sharing a tent with. My
shy guy, with whom i wasnt yet in a relationship with, fetched a pillow and put it in my tent without saying a word to me.

5.He will take your side if given a chance.

If you and a friend are arguing about what the color of the sky is and you say it is green, the shy guy will most likely say that it is green if asked for his opinion, even if it seems ridiculous.

6.You see it everywhere and it always looks shy.

This means he knows without doubt that you will be there and he is expecting a race between the two of you. I mean, the fact
that he is shy doesnt mean he’s going to be shy with everyone and everywhere, so if you where to see him with his head down
and feeling embarrassed, then there is a good chance he has anticipated seeing you. This only shows that your shy guy is in love.

Do not write off a shy guy until you get to know him. Just because he is shy does not mean he will not give you the world on
a platter once he takes over.

5 Signs he is not in love with you

Signs he is not in love

Signs he is not in love


You have succeeded : after years of struggling and haunting in the evening with fellow singles, you officially have a boyfriend. But there is a question nagging you: does he really like me? The five-point response.

1 / ” You’re the one who I want to be with”

A small statement like this is always flattering, but learn to read between the lines, what message is your sweetheart
passing across unconsciously? “Nothing is free in feeling and the sweet words still echo a manifestation of the unconscious.”
“A man who says you’re the only one with whom he has always wanted to be with, hints that he continues to think of other
women, even if it remains in the realm of fantasy. A man who is in a committed relationship does not need to position himself
in relation to other women, you are the only one and that’s all. ”

2 / He says ” I love you ” but only during sex

To extract words of love, your darling must be on the verge of coitus, i.e intense feelings, ready to reach orgasm. “What is
said in a moment of passion is always taken lightly. It certainly makes sense in the moment, but this is a time when emotions
run high, can we really trust them? No! “Says the therapist. ” My boyfriend told me he wanted to have a child with me,” says
Claire, a young woman who doubts her relationship, “We made love when he told me that he wanted me to have his baby”. The
problem? “When the next day I told him that I was willing to try it, he pretended not to remember … That really hurt me.”

3 / He is not loving

Of course, there are men who are less demonstrative than others. But it is a scientific fact: the romantic chemistry is made by
physical contact and show of affection. “A man who shuns contacts without cause, it is usually a
bad sign .” “For example, if you kiss and you feel that he simply returning the favor, in a distracted way, it is not only
annoying, but it is also a sign of a lack of investment in the relationship.”

4 / He makes promises he does not keep …

Making promises is easy. Anyone can do it. The number one rule of any relationship is that actions are more important than
words. He makes promises he never keeps? Beware, there is probably a reason for that …

5 / He speaks of the future, but the future never comes

Even if he is not in love a man would like to make you feel good about him. By speaking of his great plans, putting stars in
your eyes, it boosts his ego. But when a man is in love. it is not merely talk. Love becomes the present, always!


Signs That He Will Never Propose- how to tell if your man is marriage material

Signs That He Will Never propose how to tell if your man is marriage material

You feel you have waited forever for your man to pop the question. If your relationship has gone on for a while, then it is only natural that you would be expecting an engagement ring and the title of his wife. How long is too long to wait for him to propose? If you had to expect a wedding in your future and you are wondering whether it will ever happen, then you have reached a point where you need to look at your relationship more honestly. There are signs that he will never propose, and these will help you see clearly whether he even had marriage in mind.

 Signs That He Will Never Propose- how to tell if your man is marriage material

Signs That He Will Never propose how to tell if your man is marriage material


One of the signs that he will never propose is that he does not like attending anyone’s wedding. If someone has no tolerance for anything in particular, they want to distance themselves from this thing. If your boyfriend is not comfortable with the idea of his own marriage to you, he will tend to refrain from attending weddings or any situation that might put him on the spotlight. He knows he will raise the issue not only with you, but others too. If he declines when the both of you are invited to a wedding by friends or family members, this is not promising for you.

You can also tell if he is shying from the idea of walking down the aisle when he never refers to you as part of his plans. Even the most conservative of us still talk about the future, from time to time , and in the case of couples in a committed relationship, they almost always use terms like “we ” and ” us.” If your boyfriend only talks about his own plans for what will be a year or five years from now, you’re definitely not part of the image of the life he has painted for himself in his mind.

There is also a very clear sign in the way he introduces you to other people. If he only ever refers to you(in his introduction of you to his friends and family) only as his “friend” or his “girlfriend” and never as the woman he loves or the person he wants to spend the rest of his life with, then you’re stuck in a role that you probably do not want to play anymore. It is very difficult emotionally to always just be his girlfriend for all to see when you two have been together for years. It lowers the connection that the both of you have.

Understanding the signs he will never propose can help you see clearly where your relationship is headed. It is not easy to admit that you are involved with a man who has no interest in marriage, but it is better than hiding your head in the sand and believing a proposition is just around the corner.