In this article I will tell you three simple ways to quickly and effortlessly attract the love of your life. It is a simple and easy process that will have you hooked up in no time. You will need to spend a bit of mental energy at first, but once you have established the process, it will be almost automatic. One of the great things about these simple concept is that it will get you the partner of your dreams without having to “settle” for someone less. And let’s face it. Many people settle for a partner, instead of taking the time and effort to choose someone who is not only compatible, but can also support and appreciate the real you, not the person you are trying to project.
One of the biggest mental blocks is the mentality of scarcity. If you go around thinking that you’ll never find someone, you develop an attitude that you have to accept what you can get, and beggars can not choose. It’s all in the way you see things. What is the first step in learning how to find the love of your life?
Develop a mindset of abundance. There are over six billion people in the world, half of which sex you are looking for. Surely there are plenty of choices in your city. The best way to develop a mindset of abundance is to go sight seeing. Walk on Sunday afternoons at the mall or other popular spots. Mentally check all the people you see that you might enjoy being in a relationship with. It will not take long for you to realize that there are literally hundreds of people in a small area that could be just right for you. Now that you have developed an abundance mentality, you’re ready to move to step two.
Determine your criteria. This is the step that most people never even consider. You can only do this after you’ve convinced yourself that you have many choices. What kind of guy do you like? Tall? short? Skinny? Fat? Does not matter. All that matters is that it is what you want. What kind of personality? What kind of context? Which side of the bed do they sleep on? This may take some time. I recommend spending an afternoon with a laptop and writing a list on your computer. You can also go to a coffee shop where you can take a cup of coffee and watch people walking to support your imagination while doing this. Once you have your list, you’re ready for step three.
Action. Most people go through life hoping to get “picked up”. The movie stars dream of being “discovered.” Everyone dreams of something that just “happens.” Usually things like that only happen in movies. In the real world, you have to go after what you want. off Course, there are exceptions, but generally, the happiest people are those who have decided what they wanted, and went after it. When you are in the “action” mode, you will not be wondering if they like you or what you should say, or when you need to call them, or any of those things. You have a mental list, and your work in this phase is to sort by as many people as possible, until you find someone who meets the majority of your criteria, if not all of them. And something really cool happens to you as you sort through people based on your list of criteria. You will become incredibly charismatic and attractive in the process.
So now you have a choice to make. Will you continue sitting there, reading articles on the Internet, waiting for something to happen? Or will you turn off your computer and go outside and make things happen? I thought as much. Good for you.
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